Discover The Hidden ‘5 Fractures’ Sabotaging ​Men’s Dating, Love, Sex, and Happiness. And ​How To Fix Them.

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The '5 Masculine Fractures' framework ​helps men overcome self-sabotaging ​patterns in their personal and romantic ​lives. Leave it unfixed, and you'll stay ​stuck in dating, relationships, intimacy, ​and struggle to find happiness.

THE FRACTURE MAP

A Nerve Fracture is a fear of death caused by ​uncertainty or perceived threats, leading to a ​volatile nervous system, overreactions and ​impulsive mistakes.

FRACTURE FEAR VOICE:

“I’m not safe”

DESPERATE FOR:

“Security”

FRACTURE Symptoms:

1. Excessive worry, overthinking & easily overwhelmed
2. Social anxiety, awkward silences, isolation
   
3. Loses composure (frame), hypersensitive, impatient
   
4. Unhealthy soothing (social media, food, texting, porn)
5. DEAF Response (Defend, Explain, Attack, Fawn)
   

FRACTURE REPAIR:

1. Sleep discipline​
   
2. Meditation/Breathwork​
   
3. Nature & Exercise​
   

An Ego Fracture is a fear of powerlessness ​caused by low self-esteem leading to ​narcissism, anger, perfectionism and an ​obsession with others' opinions.

FRACTURE FEAR VOICE:

“I’m not enough”

DESPERATE FOR:

“Power”

FRACTURE Symptoms:

1. People-pleaser, over or under-achiever
   
2. A perfectionist, fears criticism, lies, fakes confidence
   
3. Self-doubt, closed mindset, negative self-talk
   
4. Easily offended, sulks, moans, victim, vengeful
   
5. Can't let go, righteous, combative or submissive
   

FRACTURE REPAIR:

1. Shadow Work
   
2. Ownership
   
3. Reimage Self
   

An Emotional Fracture is a fear of isolation ​caused by abandonment, resulting in all-​consuming neediness, chronic insecurities, and ​obsessive victim behavior.

FRACTURE FEAR VOICE:

“I’m not loveable”

DESPERATE FOR:

“Connection”

FRACTURE Symptoms:

1. Needy, desperate, fears rejection & abandonment
   
2. Puts women on a pedestal; future paces, clingy
   
3. Avoids conflict, lies, seeks approval
   
4. Savior complex, bad ender, no boundaries
   
5. Co-dependant, indecisive, passive
   

FRACTURE REPAIR:

1. Individualisation
   
2. Emotional Regulation
   
3. Masculine Growth
   

The Fractured Man either cannot ​create relationships or if he does, ​he attracts and bonds with ​Fractured Women, co-creating ​dysfunctional ones.

A Sexual Fracture is a fear of repulsion caused ​by secrecy and shame, leading to sexual ​addictions, dead bedroom and infidelity.

FRACTURE FEAR VOICE:

“I’m not desirable”

DESPERATE FOR:

“To be desired”

FRACTURE Symptoms:

1. Passive (nice-guy), Aggressive (jerk)
   
2. Fear to approach, escalate & seduce
   
3. Addictions (Porn, masturbation, pay services)
   
4. Dysfunctions: (ED, low libido & T)
   
5. Sexual Shame (sex, desires, performance, jealousy)
   

FRACTURE REPAIR:

1. Shame Healing
   
2. Shadow Work
   
3. Sexual Detox
   

A Spiritual Fracture is a fear of ​meaninglessness caused by purposelessness, ​leading to aimless wandering in search of ​purpose, fulfilment and joy in the wrong places.

FRACTURE FEAR VOICE:

“I’m not fulfilled”

DESPERATE FOR:

“Fulfillment”

FRACTURE Symptoms:

1. Lacks direction, purpose, belonging, lonely inside
   
2. Hoarding, always wanting, can’t let go
   
3. Always on the go, restless, lacks inner peace
   
4. Lacks presence, gratitude and joy
   
5. Distrusting of intuition, gut & higher power
   

FRACTURE REPAIR:

1. Mentor / Guide
   
2. Purpose
   
3. Spiritual Practices
   

🚩 RED FLAG: If FRACTURES persistently disrupt your life, you ​may be in stages 4-5 and need professional help. While being ​fracture-free is impossible, the goal is to reduce frequency and ​maintain a manageable level between stages 1-2.

F1: NERVE - Impatient, anxious, hypersensitive

F2: EGO - Low self-esteem, narcissistic, power-hungry

F3: EMOTIONAL - Needy, co-dependent, insecure

F4: SEXUAL - Timid, ashamed, sexually weak

F5: SPIRITUAL - Joyless, aimless, unfulfilled

To effectively heal and recover from the ​fractures that prevent you from being admired, ​desired, and respected as a man, two key ​approaches are essential:

1. One-on-One Coaching: This personalised ​approach helps you quickly identify patterns, ​blocks, and blind spots that exacerbate your ​fractures. You will receive a tailored strategy to ​shield yourself from further damage and self-​sabotage, setting you on the path to recovery.

2. Group Coaching: Just as iron sharpens iron, ​men’s group coaching addresses the elements ​they may have missed from a healthy father ​figure and other men, including the crucial ​process of initiation – the psychological ​transition from boyhood to manhood.

1. NERVE

“I’m can handle it”

“Becoming enough”

“Becoming loveable”

5. SPIRITUAL

“Becoming desirable”

“Becoming fulfilled”

FAISAL KHOKHAR

MEN’S COACH AND SPEAKER

Faisal Khokhar's '5 Fractures Framework' ​illuminates the core issues that significantly ​impact attraction, love, relationships, and ​intimacy.

It provides a overview to recognizing and ​mending these barriers, paving the way for ​authentic connections and evaluation as a ​human.

Faisal is a successful Coach and Speaker who ​has spoken for international audiences including ​FTSE 100 and Fortune 500 companies.

He specialises in elevating self-confidence to ​succeed in intimate relationships and thrive fully ​in life.

He is driven to uncover the deepest secrets of ​human psychology so he can help others on ​their paths of healing and personal growth.

His rich experiences in many different settings ​have greatly strengthened his ability to ​understand the needs of others and help guide ​them towards success.

Faisal Khokhar

Work With Faisal Khokhar:

https://masculine.co/

“Masculinity is bestowed by masculinity. One learns ​how to be a man from another man.” John Eldredge