I feel anxious or insecure about my sexual performance, especially with a new partner

I end up with unhealthy partners who need fixing or rescuing

I can be very jealous, controlling, and needy with certain partners, obsessing that they'll leave or cheat on me

I find it hard to trust my gut about certain partners, often ignoring red flags

I am afraid to say something that might hurt, offend, or put them off me

I attach QUICKLY with someone I really like, fantasizing about a future after a date or two

I overanalyze text messages or interactions, constantly replaying them in my head

I don't feel good when I compare my love life to my friends', peers', or social media

I try to impress my dates with money, false confidence, or boasting

I engage in deep, meaningful conversations about life goals and values with my dates

I hide my sexual desires and needs because I feel ashamed of them

I get nervous, tongue-tied, or freeze at the idea of approaching an attractive woman

I often feel a lack of purpose or direction in my life beyond finding a romantic partner

I put attractive women on a pedestal

I don't know how to escalate (move from talking all the way to a date or the bedroom)