/25 Take a Free 5 RELATIONSHIP FRACTURES TEST—Instant Results - 25 quick questions - Stay anonymous if you wish - Reveal self-sabotaging patterns - The #1 reason for relationship problems - Suitable for both men & women 💌 To receive your results by email, enter your details below. To stay anonymous, click NEXT. NameEmailGenderGenderMaleFemale 1 / 25 I avoid tension, confrontation, and conflict. (Raised voices, her getting upset, or things turning serious really throw me off.) 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 2 / 25 I overthink and hesitate myself out of moments with women I want. (I over-analyse every text, second-guess myself, and stay paralysed until the moment passes.) 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 3 / 25 I hesitate to initiate sex or become intimate because I fear being rejected (A kiss, taking her hand, escalating — I know I should and do nothing.) 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 4 / 25 I do nice things for women and secretly expect something back, hoping it will make them like me, stay or love me more (Favours, gifts, going out of my way — and when nothing comes back, I feel hurt, used, or resentful.) 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 5 / 25 When a woman pushes back or challenges me, I lose my frame. (I backtrack, over-explain, or go quiet.) 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 6 / 25 I feel empty and lost. (I can't clearly say what I stand for, what gives my life meaning, or what I'm here to become.) 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 7 / 25 I struggle with feeling “good enough” in life in general 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 8 / 25 When I’m deeply involved with someone, I lose my identity, hobbies and friendships 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 9 / 25 I tend to attach quickly and fall in love too easily 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 10 / 25 I use porn and feel ashamed afterwards. 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 11 / 25 I find it hard to trust my gut about certain partners, often ignoring red flags (She's flaky, dishonest, or treats me poorly — and I override it.) 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 12 / 25 I feel anxious if some time passes without hearing back from someone after I’ve texted them 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 13 / 25 I end up saying “YES” in relationships when I really want to say “NO” to avoid upsetting them or to keep the peace 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 14 / 25 I am afraid to say something that might hurt, offend, or put them off me 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 15 / 25 I feel envy or jealousy when I see other men with the relationship or life I want. (Like I'm falling behind while everyone else moves forward.) 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 16 / 25 I feel anxious or insecure about my sexual performance with a new partner 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 17 / 25 I find it hard to believe that someone could genuinely love or value me as I am 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 18 / 25 I feel unsettled and insecure if I don’t receive immediate reassurance from my partner 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 5 - Always 19 / 25 I find it difficult to stand up for myself when I am unfairly treated 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 20 / 25 I'm drawn to women who are broken, wounded, or chaotic. (I tell myself I can help her, change her, or save her.) 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 21 / 25 My partner’s mood heavily impacts my own (when she is happy, I am happy. When she is down, I am down) 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 22 / 25 I am overly hard on myself, especially when things don’t go as planned, I fail or get something wrong 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 23 / 25 I struggle to let go of a woman and move on. (I check her social media, re-read old messages, replay conversations in my head.) 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 24 / 25 I can be very jealous, controlling, and needy with certain partners, obsessing that they'll leave or cheat on me 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always 25 / 25 I feel like it’s my responsibility to fix problems in the relationship 1 - Never 2 - Rarely 3 - Sometimes 4 - Often 5 - Always reCAPTCHA field is required please complete!
